How to Pick a Jewelry Gift When You Don't Know Their Size

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When you do not know someone's size, choose jewelry that does not need one: stud or hoop earrings, a necklace or nameplate, or a pendant. If you have your heart set on a ring or bracelet, you can find their size quietly by borrowing a piece they already wear.

Which jewelry gifts do not need a size?

  • Stud earrings. One size fits everyone. Shop studs
  • Hoop earrings. You choose the diameter, not a fit. Shop hoops
  • Necklaces and nameplates. Chain length is flexible, and most people wear a similar range. See nameplate styles
  • Pendants. Add one to a chain they already own.

These are the safest gifts when you are unsure, and the easiest to love.

How can I find out someone's ring size without asking?

  1. Borrow a ring. Take one they wear on the same finger and bring it to our store. We can measure it. Return it before they notice.
  2. Trace it. Place the ring on paper and trace the inside circle with a sharp pencil.
  3. Press it. Press the ring into a bar of soap or clay to capture the inside size.
  4. Ask a friend or family member. Someone close may know, or can find out.

Make sure the ring you borrow is from the right finger. Fingers on the dominant hand are often a little larger, and the ring finger is not the same size as the index or pinky.

What if I guess the ring size wrong?

If you have to guess, it is usually better to go slightly larger than smaller. A ring that is a bit big can often be sized down. Ring sizing is done in our store; call or text for details and pricing. In-stock pieces can also be returned within 30 days of delivery if unworn, undamaged and in the original packaging. Shop rings

How do I pick a bracelet size?

Measure a bracelet they already wear from end to end, including the clasp. Or measure the wrist snugly and add a little room.

Who Common bracelet length
Babies About 4.5 to 5.5 inches
Women About 7 inches
Men About 8 to 9 inches

For a snug fit, add about half an inch to the wrist size. For a looser fit, add about an inch. Shop bracelets

What chain length should I choose?

Length Where it sits
16 inches At the base of the neck on most women
18 inches At the collarbone on most women, the most common nameplate length
20 to 22 inches Below the collarbone; a common men's length
24 inches and up Mid-chest, good with a pendant

If they already wear a necklace, measure it laid flat. Our jewelry gifts for him post covers men's chain styles and widths in more detail. Shop chains

What about custom pieces?

Custom nameplates and custom pieces are made to order in 10 to 14 business days, and they are final sale. Before you order, confirm the spelling and choose a chain length from the table above. We will work with you to make sure you are happy with it. If the gift is for a set date, read how to order Christmas jewelry in time for planning tips.

Still unsure?

Visit or text us

We are a family-owned jeweler with 30 years in business at 260 Main St, Orange, NJ, open seven days a week. Call or text (973) 673-3800, or start with the no-size-needed picks in our hoops collection.

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